Men supporting each other in addressing our same-sex attractions in affirming ways that align with our faith, values, morals, & life goals.

The Truth About Who We Really Are
(Vs. What Critics Say)

Sometimes, opponents deliberately malign and misrepresent us for their own political purposes and claim that we believe, do and teach things that we do not. Here is what you should know about who we really are (and who we are not). MORE...

Helping address men with SSA
Journey Into Manhood
May Change Your Life

Journey Into Manhood is our peer-led, experiential weekend of self-discovery, brotherhood, personal-growth and inner-healing work. It is designed especially for men who want to address incongruous same-sex attractions or distress over SSA. MORE...

Brothers on a Road Less Traveled

In October 2016, seven Journey Into Manhood brothers reunited for a weekend of adventure and connection. In this video series, they share how their lives have changed in the years since their respective Journey Into Manhood experiences. SEE MORE...

Does Sexuality Ever Change?

Many in our community tell us the nature of their sexual attractions has shifted over time. Many report a shift toward more platonic feelings of brotherly love and a meaningful healing in their feelings about women. MORE...

Good and Valuable, Just As You Are

We teach at Journey Into Manhood, “If you gain nothing else here, we want you to know: You are good and valuable just as you are.” Shame or self-rejection never motivate growth and healing. Ironically, self-acceptance is the true foundation of personal growth. MORE...

It’s Not About “Turning Straight”

This work is not about becoming heterosexual. After all, heterosexuality hardly guarantees happiness! Rather, this work is about finding peace. It’s about self-acceptance, releasing shame, and loving self. MORE...

Getting Started:
The First Steps on this Journey

Maybe you just don’t identify as gay. Maybe it just doesn’t feel like who you really are. Or who God is calling you to be. Maybe it just doesn’t feel like the life you want to lead or the man you want to be... MORE...

Facebook Support & Discussion

We offer public and private ("secret") Facebook groups for discussion, understanding and support. The public group encourages understanding and dialogue. Groups that Facebook calls secret are for confidential support for SSA men, wives of SSA men, couples and alumni of our programs. MORE...

We Respect Gays and Equal Rights

We hold no animosity whatsoever toward LGBT individuals or communities. They are our brothers and sisters too. Their experiences and issues are often the same as — or very similar — to our own! We simply choose to walk a different path. MORE...

What About Therapy for SSA?

Brothers on a Road Less Traveled is NOT a therapy organization. We are a non-profit, peer-support community. So we have a highly vested interest in protecting our right to client self-determination and therapeutic choice.... MORE...

Wife/Girlfriend support for SSA
A Wife’s Journey, Too

Maybe you’ve known about his SSA for years, but never fully dealt with the reality of how it affects you. Or maybe you just recently found out. Either way, this is your journey too. When one partner is going through something as big as this, you both are. ... MORE...


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